Thanks, PD.

I have actually been out of spy mode for over 3 months. I guess that is why I did not catch OM's creative attempt LOL. I am not even interested anymore. So I do not know whether they are in contact again.

I have been doing lots of GAL. On weekends I grab the kids to play baseball, go to a stargazing event, you name it. I am actually planning my life without her.

The deadlock we have is very simple. She may not want to continue the EA, but she wants to keep OM as a friend. I told her that was not acceptable to me. Plus, I want to see something that tells me she owns her sh!t. Unfortunately, in the past I never really followed through on these things. And I guess that is what she is hoping for this time as well.

This time I know I have to stick to it. But the tension is killing me...


M43 W45, M17
S9 D6
Bomb: 11/11/08
EA: 10/26-12/31/08 ?
Retrouvaille: 2/13-2/15/09
Healed, but still heading for D
My situation