Gucci Can you check in with hhh in NC? I just want my H back. I think she could learn a lot from you. Younger couple, no kids, husband just left and has a "new life" and is finding himself and liking the attention.
What about fun AND work...Jeez are women the only ones willing to TCB?
Alright, I shouldn't break this down to a man/woman thing but seriously, sometimes family life requires work and you have to figure out how to make it fun.
Marriage should not be a reason to have to take anti-depressants!
I agree with both statements...but don't know what to do with them
Last edited by RedSoxFan; 08/21/0904:56 PM.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
Hi, sorry to chime in here folks, but someone posted this one time:
When a relationship is good and right, both people involved naturally want to do the work necessary to keep it alive.
When one party doesn't want to do the work, what does that say about the relationship?
By the way, RSF, I can't add to what others have posted here (such wonderful, thought-provoking advice from everyone) Just wanted to say I totally admire your ability to confront your wife with the desire of a reconciliation. I think a good portion of the WAS's discussed on these forums may have those feelings some day, but will never ever share them with the LBS. So sad.
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
My my my MB....you are such a trouble maker....what am I going to do with you????!!!! Guess I have to buy a plane ticket and take a long weekend and come have fun too!
