Sad to be back

[AnotherNightmare]

So it is Friday afternoon, W returns from IC. She goes right to her computer in the kitchen. When I come up and empty the dishwasher, I ask her if she wants a coffee, while I am preparing tea for myself. She says no, but nothing else.

I have no idea what to do other than continuing what I have been. No R talk, unless she initiates. I avoid arguments. I still talk to her about tactical things, but that is it.

After she discovered that I had access to her e-mail account, we had a fight, not really big, because I stopped it in its tracks by saying: "Look, if you do not want to end the R with OM permanently and work on our M, that is fine, just let me know and move out!" She responded: "I am not moving out!" Can someone explain to me what is going on?