I am glad the kids are having a good time. As far as the OW is concerned, well, I wish I could say something that would bring rainbows but yeah...doesn't work that way. I think one of the easiest things for me is that stbx and I didn't have kids. So I will never have to deal w/ him dating, remarrying, or whatever. I can't imagine having to go through that.

All I can say is now, after going through this, I can see why some women kill the H and OW. Not that I would do it...but I can definitely understand it.

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..