Hehehehehehehehehehe. Good for you. I didn't ever provide more information than was asked for with my H, but he never probed. He isn't the type. But I could watch his brain turning...and I enjoyed every last moment of it.

Now, your H might push you further, might even accuse you of filing for D. And that's when you look at him wide-eyed and say, "Wherever did you get that idea? I only took care of some business I needed to take care of."

You owe him no further explanation.

Still chuckling...

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!