You're right. As soon as I think that I am good and detached it seems that I have a relapse. At least I'm at a point where I don't have to act on it now.

I reraly initiate any contact with her anymore. I did send her a text to let her know I wouldn't be home for dinner a few minutes ago. (I didn't say why or when I would get there)

I'll enjoy myseld more heading out to dinner with a friend tonight. Maybe hit a comedy club.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.