Good to hear y'all are going to MC and he's reading. You'll do fine in there as long as you feel that you can both open up to the MC. For us MC is helping us a lot I think. Our counselor is a sex thrapist too, which for people like us seems to make the most sense. The biggest thing is it has opened up our talking about sex with each other. Also for her it has opened her eyes to the way that sex is just another way to show affection.
Wow, I promised updates and here it is a month later and I haven't posted. Mrs. Cinco finished reading PM and asked if I had any other books she could read. After I picked my jaw up off of the flour I handed her Mars/Venus and said I got a lot out of this one.
Also she checked DB out at the library and has been reading that one as well. She picked this one all by herself. She really likes it. (You know I haven't even read that one.)
Also the ST has her reading romance novels. These really aren't her style and she has said that the situations in them all seem so far fetched. (ie. Woman meets man on elevator and 10 minutes later they are "doing it".) Whatever...
We've settled into ML about twice a week now. More importantly, it hasn't felt like an obligation when we do. We are enjoying each other so much more now too. More kissing and touching with meaning.
We still have some barriers and I think we do have more work to do in that area but it feels so good for things to be moving. I never thought it ever would move, we felt stuck for so long.
Jayce you'll love this.... we are still sleeping in the nude.
After I picked my jaw up off of the flour I handed her Mars/Venus and said I got a lot out of this one.
