I got intruiged trying to figure out what may or may not be going through XW's head these days and tracked down your first thread.
You said shortly after reading and reading some more, there were 4 steps (with you in #3, limbo) and the 4th being committing the actual PA.
Well, obviously my XW has gone the full monty. You also said that when the newness and excitement fade away, the WAS finds themselves right back in the type of R they ran from creating a viscious cycle the would lead to an 'emotional breakdown'.
I know at my times, I have said some nasty undeserving things of my XW in repsonse to things to things she had said/done. I sit here now very disheartened by what has transpired, but I don't hate her. I have always been concerned of her well being regardless. In reading what you said you didn't want to go through after going the distance and making your EA a PA, I feel completely sick to my stomach.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
