So counting what works and doesn't. Drinking and arguing with her about the van was obviously bad.
Telling her how great she did with her purchase and shopping together with the kids and being light hearted and non judgemental and letting things slide off my back worked really well.
Going forward with the C and a new one at that seemed to create tension.
Not sure if she considers me going to AA to be weak or if that is a good thing in her mind. Not that it matters. When I have mentioned it, she hasn't said anything one way or the other.
She hasn't refiled for D yet, but I also happen to know that she has been very busy. We will see if that happens next week. I pray that it does not.
One lego goes on, then it seems to come off. Then back on again, then back off again.
Kevin
Kevin you SEEMED to be doing a little better, then we get this post...WORK ON YOU WITHOUT CONSIDERING HOW IT COULD AFFECT YOU R...
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
