I'm certainly not wise like coach, but IMO it is too easy to be stuck in spouse-induced limbo-land forever waiting on them to figure things out. If the status quo hasn't driven you over the edge yet, then let it ride. If you can't handle another day of indecision then bring it up.
You've been at this a while now. If you leave things unspoken too long then it can fester into resentment on your part instead of just detatchment. KWIM?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!