Can't I put the divorce on hold when we go to the initial conference? That was my plan...to tell the judge we are going to try and reconcile. I want to leave this marriage (hopefully not) with NO regrets.

Can I do that even if my h wants to continue on with the divorce?

Yes, my facebook is Lynn Molitor-Gordon, not too much there.


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B