Working on being lovingly detached today. Wife with other man since Mon. Daughters with Grandma. Both are in the same town about 3 hours from here. Wife has agreed not to introduce other man to daughters. Other man's father is going to die any day now of cancer and wife is a great comfort to him, but once he passes eventually this guy will have to go back to LA and will no longer have such easy access to my wife who will be in-house separation with me. She cannot move our daughters to LA without my permission and I'm not going to give it. Wife seems surprised that I was so calm and a true friend to her about other man's father. I again made it clear I don't approve of what she's doing, but know she has made it clear she is going to explore her relationship with him anyway. I'm staying out of the middle of that and Divorce Busting doing my own work, GAL, etc.
