Please...keep telling me how I have the power in this situation when I don't feel like that at all. How do I get him to trust me?
Ultimately it is you who can choose to wait this out or to proceed with a Divorce.
For me, I want to live my life without any regrets.
My "Stand" was based on several factors, one of them being that if I don't try then will I always wonder about all of the what if's????
Trust is not built in a day, it is over time. When he can see that you are not the same person he ran away from. That you no longer react to things. That you can have a conversation with him about every day stuff.
Friendship takes time.
My Husband told me that he wanted us to learn how to play nicely in the sandbox together.
So, let's take the focus off of him now.
GG, what do you need to change about yourself?
What were some of his issues with you during the Marriage?
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
