Quote: Funny you said on your thread that you felt last night you may have to be the one to initiate acts with your H b/c maybe he's waiting for you to do that. I have had that thought too and even had it last night. I have been the one to head to bed before her, and last night she seemed almost sad I was foing to bed. Nothing specific she did, just a sense I picked up on with her tone of voice when I said I was turning in.
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It's called leading. Only one way out of limboland. You can handle it.
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OK Coach. I'm gonna need some clarification here. Maybe I missed something, but I thought it was our job to have our WAS' initiate the R talk on their timetable. Now, you seem to be (I think you ARE) saying I should be the one to raise that issue.
If that IS the case, how would you suggest that play out? Do I say where are we headed? Do I say I can't live the way we are living now? What if her response is not a definite yes, I want to work on the MR or No way - what if it is "I don't know?"
I can handle whatever, I just want to know I'm on the right track reading your post and the best way to approach this.
