Hi, sorry to chime in here folks, but someone posted this one time:
When a relationship is good and right, both people involved naturally want to do the work necessary to keep it alive.
When one party doesn't want to do the work, what does that say about the relationship?
By the way, RSF, I can't add to what others have posted here (such wonderful, thought-provoking advice from everyone) Just wanted to say I totally admire your ability to confront your wife with the desire of a reconciliation. I think a good portion of the WAS's discussed on these forums may have those feelings some day, but will never ever share them with the LBS. So sad.
