Well, I am currently in the holding pattern talked about in DB. I know OW is still in the picture but H is becoming a little more relaxed around me. He took care of the girls last night so that I could go to dinner with friends. He is becoming more curious about my whereabouts and has even been snooping around my things/computer. He's never really been the jealous type... so I think this is good. At any rate, asked me for a hug, talked with me and has been calling a little more. Now if I could just get OW out of this sitch!!! Anyone have any ideas? I have to be very careful and am trying to really follow DB principles (I act as if she does not exist ... I don't ask him questions about his life.... I am pretty low key). I am going to start to get him to spend more time with the girls for their sake (and it would obviously mean less time with OW). Any rate.... have a great weekend.

HIW


HIW
M 35
H 37
D 5, D 2
Married 1996
Dating 1992
Met 1988
EA/PA started March 2009
Bomb 6/16/2009
Separated 6/23/2009

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