I know these are novels. We are at the very beginning and are floundering.

I am going back to pma, be upbeat, take care of me. I am trying to remember to not believe anything he says right now. To watch for baby steps. Got anything else? Anyone?

Me 34
H 37
Kids 7 & 4
Married 12yrs, together 17
Kiss/EA lasted 2 weeks.
NC since 8/7