Give it to me straight!

[mishka422]

Don't know why that should occur to me now, when I have decided I will just accept him being done and get this whole thing over with. But, it does matter to me.

Why did occur to you now? Because you have stopped trying to love Dan and have started to detatch fully from him. It's going to take more time, but you are on your way. The day that you don't even think once about talking/texting/communicating in any way with him will be the day you have let go.

BBJ, I wonder the same thing about my xh. I often wonder if anything he ever said or did as true and done with real feelings toward me or if it was just an act to get what he wanted at the time. We will probably never know BBJ and that is just te sad truth.

Personally, I'm so disillusioned about R's and M that I could not see myself trusting any man to be honest with me enough to form that kind of bond. I hope that you will be able to separate Dan's actions and words from those of other men and move forward with your life fully. You will be happy no matter what though! I have NO DOUBTS!!!

Let us know how the meeting with your boss goes!