This morning we were exchanging for the shower. I noticed she checked me out. I went over and kissed her; I think she tried to resist but couldn't. "Why do you do that?" she said afterward.
I'm wondering the same thing, Tristan. You KNOW the pursuing, needy/grabby behavior is the wrong move, and yet you continue to do it anyway??
Look, I know this is hard, but SELF-DISCIPLINE IS ESSENTIAL TO DBing! Without it, you're screwed.
You need to get some resolve. As Coach would say, "You can handle it."