Consistent actions based on what you said you were going to do. Don't repeat the patterns that your husband says are not trusting him.
Has he ever cheated on you?
Do you know why you are so jealous and insecure in your marriage?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.