Interesting that the person WITH the happy marriage AND intact family is now getting advice on intact family from a person who had an affair and left his wife and told her he didn't love her. Where was all this when it should have been applied?
You have been on here for what? Couple of days and now want to GIVE advice?
Not trying to be rude, but I already HAVE and am living what you are NOW all the sudden trying to inform me of. Suddenly you now can tell others about keeping a family intact.
OK, deep breath here. First, I appreciate your giving your valuable time to offer advice, guidance and share your experiences. I don't know if I have ever experienced such generosity from complete strangers. I am incredibly thankful for this
In my previous post I did not attempt to offer any advice but rather share my opinions and experience. I'm sorry that you feel my views are invalid. I have made many mistakes in my life and will continue to do so. I am not a perfect being by ANY stretch. I will continue to contemplate your points and give them consideration. At this point I still humbly and respectfully disagree.
I hope that you will continue to share your experiences and offer your wisdom. I will continue to be appreciative and will also share my thoughts and views with you.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
