Funny you said on your thread that you felt last night you may have to be the one to initiate acts with your H b/c maybe he's waiting for you to do that. I have had that thought too and even had it last night. I have been the one to head to bed before her, and last night she seemed almost sad I was foing to bed. Nothing specific she did, just a sense I picked up on with her tone of voice when I said I was turning in.
It's called leading. Only one way out of limboland. You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.