The gist of Iamlost's last post is that the WAW needs to vilify you...or monstrify you to validate their reasons for leaving or hurting everyone. If they don't, they are forced to look at THEMSELVES.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;