Thanks Stronger.

This is our conversation so far this morning:

me:
I need $70 for the insurance its due
W:
wat...you never even made it clear for me about everything?
(I did she just doesn't remember because of the fight)
me:
Ok will we need to talk and we should go have dinner or something somewhere not your place. So we can discuss theses issues and only these issues.
(we have always fought at her place. I figured if we are not in the same environment we won't fight about the same issues and she probably won't make a scene in public. Its in DB forgot what chapter.)
W:
OMG how many times are we gonna talk n discuss when we cant even do that sh*t?
Me:
This time lets both stay on topic. when and where would you like to meet? Just don't bring it up and I won't bring it up.
W:Fine when? So you gonna help me pay 4 a the ticket then?
(appearntly she said I was the cause of this citation she recieved 2 weeks ago. We were arguing and she was driving like crazy but did not get a speeding ticket, she got a dark tint ticket. I have always told her since we have owned that vehicle for the past 6 years its going to happen one of these days and I should take it off. She likes the tint and said it won't ever happen. Well it did.)
M:
Tonight I'm going to see a counselor so I won't be available after work. It would be best for tomorrow so I can go through everything. Please find a sitter. We will discuss the ticket tomorrow also.


Me:27
W:24
S:2
D:9 months
M:3 years
Together for 8 years
Bombed : 6/11/09
Moved out: 6/27/09
Found out about her affair 9/7/09
(she started her's at 6/25/09)
Begged n plead 7/25/09
started DB 8/17/09