Most of us who end up here are in Last Resort by the time we get here.
Last resort is NOT THE ONLY DB WAY!
I am going to be re-reading the non-LRT sections of DR and DB because some of those bits are working for me. In particular, the part about 'asking'.
I think it was good that she was sad when you went to bed alone. I think our spouses need to feel and wrestle with that sadness, and for more than just a single night. It confirms for them that they want us and don't like the distance.
Note that I am not suggesting anything other than re-reading certain sections of the book, which I am going to do myself. But after that, maybe it's time to give things a lil' shake?
And btw - is there any chance your W wore that dress and those heels specifically to look good to you?
Last edited by Dia; 08/21/0902:29 PM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
