I have the cat and dog to come home to which is lovely and they are so happy to see me, but it is the company of H that I am missing and it is starting to hit hard, the next week is going to be hard as it is the last week we will spend in our house together as a couple and I know that the next phase of DBing is going to be harder and I will have that awkward moment of when he leaves Friday after the move knowing that he fully intends never to return. That is a frightening concept to me.
Remember, believe none of what they say and half of what they actually DO.
Now...maybe it's just me, but I find it curious that your H is waiting to leave until the move. He could have already left, but here he is, peeking over your shoulder at night to try to see what you're doing on the computer. I suspect your reaction is puzzling to him too...remember, the first step is to get them to start thinking and questioning their decision, and I'd bet the farm he's got interesting thoughts swirling in that head of his.
He's not done. Has he said he wants a D? Or just some notion that he wants to go live the glorious (ramen-eating, farting and scratching his naughty bits) life of a middle aged bachelor?
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
