"Maybe later that day when I get back for working some more at the wood pile I can tell her I am going to take another shower and I can ask her if she can come scrub my back?"
ARRGGGHHH... Banging head against the wall. I halfway wonder if you are kidding and halfway fear that you are not.
I want you to imagine trying to make one of the women you are fantasizing about want you. Would you use that strategy? "Hey baby, come over here and make me feel good." "Oh yeah hoochie mama, come get some of THIS."
Or, would you instead try to seduce her? Focus on making her horny, on pleasing her?
The best way to get a woman interested sexually is not to ask her for sexual favors for yourself, but to turn her on. Be hot, take charge sexually, give her a few Os that have nothing to do with you "finishing", be sexual, talk dirty to her, tell her how she turns you on, give her space to enjoy sex and orgasms without it being about you finally getting some...
