BND, What do you mean by not provoking him? He said he would could "date" again, but he has made no moves in that area. Do I ask him out? I asked my atty for a separation agreement, but in Colorado they are very close to the same thing. My atty said we go to the conference, get the financial piece in order, and then tell the judge we are attempting to reconcile. However, I see NO movement towards reconciliation on my h's part. I think he's in full blown replay and will be there for awhile. How long did your stand last before your marriage was reconciled?
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10