IMO successful marriages are made up of many parts not the least of which is hard work.
LOVE is suppose to be FUN not WORK. When it becomes too much WORK there is a tendency for one of the parties to search out a different and FUN relationship.
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Its often the case that one or more partners dont have the tools or don't know how to do the work. In my case that was true and it led to a long decline of the marriage, W having a PA and finally me doing the same and walking out.
Remember, Work = Force x Displacement. Apply Force and you are working to displace. SM.
