I believe I have learned something about the difference between detaching and withdrawing. If I try to start a conversation, W might join it, whereas if I don't she won't initiate. True, most times she won't fully enter the conversation, but sometimes she does. Otherwise we just politely ignore each other in the house. Normally I am a quiet person, and for most of our M, she would start conversations and we would talk. I feel that by not trying to talk to her at all, it might seem like I am actually sulking. So, I will try to talk to her about stuff. Not R stuff, just everyday stuff and see what happens. We are doing some family things this weekend, and as I have posted before, she many times is more open to talking during those times. We shall see.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
