Thought I would drop in between dinner and picking up D from the movies.
You are getting good advice from everyone here, I don't have much to give but support at present as I am still learning and finding my way. But the one thing I have learn't is what the others have said is don't react and stop trying to read his mind. I have accepted this advice as absolute no. 1 rules.
You will never know what is going on his mind and only once you stop trying to read it will you find some peace. I have only just arrived at that place, not to say it has been easy and every so often I find myself wondering then I have to pull myself up.
Not sure if I have the house yet or not, the agent has approved me it is now up to the owner of the property to say if they agree or not. Either way, I still have to find somewhere to live by next Friday for D, the pets and I, the pressure is on but I will get there.
I was thinking of you when I was having dinner and everyone else here, none of my friends know about this site, it is my secret - that is another important rule, do not tell anyone about this site or the DBing, it is for you and for you alone. I was thinking though that my friends whilst trying to give advice don't really understand as they are not in this situation and don't know the feeling, it is only here that we can fully get understanding and support from like minded people.
For sure I am here with you as is everyone else on this long slow journey we are now in.
