Thanks. I know the importance of detaching. Admittedly, I am having a hard time, but am trying. And my eyes are open. They always have been. After my first experience, as soon as I realized this M was in trouble, that was one of the first things I looked for, and have been looking since.
I do feel pretty grounded. I know what must be done. That doesn't mean I am not sad, though. But I have a weekend filled with family events coming up, and I am off from work all next week and it will be just me and the boys. I have a bunch of things to do and places to go lined up. It should be a good week.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.