You sound grounded this morning. Hopefully, I'm right.
You have to live your sitch, and no one knows your M better than YOU. Some people's approach may not be as tactful or sugarcoated as others, but I gain wisdom from everyone's posts, even the ones that are "to the point" without any sugar.
You know what to look for as far as red flags. I'm not gonna beat a dead horse other than to say keep your eyes open. I think you will. You're a big boy.
But, I also think regardless of what may or may not be present on the A issue, you still have to detach, if for no other reason than for your own peace of mind. It has helped me immensely and has given me the strength to carry on in my current sitch. That and a LOT of prayer.
Don't know that I am saying anything more than I already have. Just wanted you to know I am pulling for you and will continue to pray for you.
