I'm sorry you find yourself here...again. But, if you have to be in this situation, this is the place to be for support and guidance.
OK, first, did you say a woman emailed your H naked pic's? And who were in the pic's? The woman who emailed your H? What do you know about the woman?
Clearly, you need to know what your H is doing with this woman.
Your H sounds pretty immature. Not a slam on him, just an observation. How old are you?
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First ILYBINILWY was shortly after we were married, with the first crisis wave.
Wow. That's pretty quick on the heels of M. Were there any problems before you were M'd?
What was your H's family's story? Any M problems with his parents? What was his childhood like?
Why do you think your H is in MLC? Pretty early for that, although that doesn't have an age limit.
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I have been DBing over the past year and a half,
What, specifically, have you been doing to work on you, to GAL? What have you done that has appeared to get positive signs from your H?
From reading your post, it sounds like your self esteem is pretty low. One of the biggest aspects of DB'ing in my opinion, is building that up. What have you done to do that?
Now, also, take a deep breath, and try to get control of your emotions. You will need to approach this situation with a level head.
