You are right, I have two sisters. They are great. And I have taken on my brothers-in-law as my brothers. I just call some of my good male friends brothers. I guess because I never really had a brother?
I want to come to Greece myself! I do not have the money right now. I know I could charge it but I have no credit card debt FINALLY! And so I don't want to get any new debt.
Thanks for telling me on my thread that I am not dumb, just human. And you are right, we need to respect their choices even if they are stupid choices.
That is why I am pushing forward now more than I ever did before. So he can live the choice he has convinced me that he wants for himself.