Would the A constitute a violation of any contracts? Innappropriate relations of whatever? Exposing it to employers may cost a job. Not that that would affect my choice whether to expose it or not.

Even if I chose to not "expose" it, I wouldn't keep it a secret. If someone asked me what was going on, I would be honest about it.

If they are doing something that they cant be honest about, maybe they shouldnt be doing it!

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...