Just want my H back

[pearlharbr]

hhh,

I'm not here every day but will be sure to check on you next week. I really do understand needing the support. But you have to let us know what you're doing.

What have you been doing the past couple weeks? What GAL activities have you been doing? How have you been working on yourself?

I'm going to give it to you straight--you sound desperate. Desperation is not attractive. I know you're probably just venting here but you need to try to give off a positive vibe. Fake it 'til you make it.

I agree with Stronger's first four things that worked, the other two did not work for me. Going dark did work for me for the same reason it didn't work for Stronger. I pushed BF at OW and they had to be together all the time really fast. I haven't asked what happened between them during that time but I do know that it was only a matter of weeks before he wanted to work things out.

Bottom line is this: stop making it about your H and start making it about you.