Mountain It is hard and you went thru a lot today tomorrow will be better
I believe the way our MLCers leave with NO feeling attached to it is they shutdown maybe thats part of the crises they shut everything down then the OP they are confused and the love for us is buries deep within I speak with many people I have net people whose spouse has left some had affairs many returned others, wanted to return-sometimes it was too late I beleive many wiull feel some regret later after bottom after affair wears off there is NO way to reach them so we have no choice in this to let go you will be OK peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow