Originally Posted By: davidswife
Please, please -- LISTEN to what Gucci is telling you. Do what he says, it is counter-intuitive.

But do what he says, not what you "feel" like doing.

Honestly, it's not all that counter-intuitive. It is quite logical. Keeping my heart and emotions under control are the challenges. I think I'm doing pretty OK but boy I have ups and downs. Keeping them out of sight is my challenge.

I had a great night tonight. We had plans for me to go over to their place for out oldest daughter's birthday. W called a little before I was due over asking when I was arriving. I told her I was in the neighborhood shopping and could come over whenever she liked. She said they were starting a good movie and if I hurried they'd weight for me (birthday girl wasn't scheduled to be home for another 45 minutes). I arrived, we watched a movie, I ran out to pick up some pizzas, we opened presents, hung out and I said goodbyes and left around midnight. I'm reading nothing into it but I can tell you it was a wonderful night. All light, no R talk or anything stressful. Just nice to have all of us together. smile


AKA: "Ben the school teacher"
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Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20
Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08
My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09
W w/OM 6/09-11/09

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