How do you wait this out?

[Golfgirl1]

BND,
You are so right...I do NOT want a divorce, however he has significantly cut back on the finances and his affair with the VP of the company who does all the "books" doesn't make me feel secure. I have told my attorney that I would like to go to the initial conference and then put things on hold for awhile while we see if there is any chance of reconciliation. At this time he is telling me he is not attracted to me and doesn't feel attractive to me. What do I do with that? I will look for your thread...