Dan called twice this evening...need to stop answering the phone.
Mind you he told me on Tuesday "I do not have the patience I would need to deal with you anymore" and "the anger and resentment and disappointment and hate that continues to build in me for you spills into my time with them (kids) and I won't let it happen anymore"
So WTF?
Nathan had a dentist appt today and wound up getting two silver caps/lots of shots/nitrous oxide, so I thought he may have been calling about that. Nope
Call 1: I am at (Party Supply Store) getting things for Nathan's party [with dan's family, I am NOT going], do you need anything?
I said No, I have everything for my party. He started to get all friend-y and chatty talking about how he looked forever for gray food coloring then remembered you just thin the black with icing (duh), etc etc
I interrupted and said we were going to karate and I had to go. He started to ask about the dentist and I said sorry, gotta go and hung up.
Call #2 at 8:30 tonight (thought he was calling to say goodnight to kids--he didn't ask to talk to them at all): Have you seen our black folding camp chairs?
He is taking the kids camping this weekend and celebrating Nathan's bday with his family. His mom asked me to go and I said no. It will be the first 'family' event I have missed since Nathan was born 7 years ago.
I told him chairs were in the garage. He asked about Nathan's dentist, I gave him very brief run-down. Then he started chatting about their plans and I said I needed to go put kids to bed.
He asked about meeting up Sunday night (the 'go over details' thing). I told him to just email me whatever he had on his mind and I could email a reply. He repeated that we could get together Sunday evening. I said there was no need to get together, just email me. He again said "We can just talk Sunday night"
Wtf. I am so glad we are finishing this up.
What sort of weirdo basically says he hates you and cannot be around you and then wants to get together?