I just got off the phone with my W and boys. Actually, I left a message for my W and she called back! I just asked her about how she was doing etc. She never mentioned the divorce proceedings once, not even the affidavit.She actually does not know that I am able to check the status of the divorce proceedings online.

I asked her about school, etc. She then asked me what were my plans to perfom this religious ordinance for my S12 when he turns 12 next week. I thought she would never ask me that since her father can perform the same ordinance as well. We talked about linking up halfway so I can be the one doing this ordinance for my S12. I'm quite surprised she even asked me. And I hope we'll link up somewhere to do it. It's a very important step in my S12's religious life, and I'm still surprised my W asked me to be a part of it.

Anyway, I shouldn't read into any of this. It's just great that I may see our boys again soon. Maybe a good opportunity as well to indirectly show my W how much I've changed...

JR


Me:44
WAW:43
Children S13,S11,S7
Married 17 yrs
W left JUN 08
W filed JAN 09
D proceedings dismissed AUG 09
W refiles 1 MAR 11