Originally Posted By: v1olin
But she still writes in her journal that getting flowers from me "sapped all of her energy".


Originally Posted By: v1olin
I know I need to detach and I think I have arrived.


Bull. Read your first quote.

Why are you still reading her effing journal???


Me: 50; Wife: 48
Gay; civil union in NJ
no kids
M: 15 years, together 17
Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY
W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed