Yes, I still have hope that we will reconcile but I cant get her to that point before the legal divorce is final. She has already divorced me in her mind and after the legal stuff is done I dont think she will come around.

I know it is a marathon but at this point I am drained.

Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final