Over the Shock and GALing 6

[Thinker]

Thanks Sara,

I get very frustrated feeling like I am dealing with a rebellious child who I have to check up on all the time. I don't want to have to watch, and follow up on, and check up on my W. That's not the M I want to be in.

Anyway, not angry any more.

We just got through a discussion on spending and budgets with only a bit of tension. I didn't force a discussion on priorities or who was doing what - it was just a "family business meeting" to review where we are vs the budget, where we are jointly overspending, etc.

I was using quicken to go through it with her (I recommend the free quicken online tool for anyone looking for a quick and easy way to track spending vs budgets - it's pretty good). I had to go upstairs to get a child back into bed, and when I got back noticed that my facebook account was up on the screen. I did not have it open before, so she was snooping around my computer.

Good thing I had deleted the history on the browser before I started the review with her, or she may well have found Divorcebusting.