Karen - it's just the roller coster. I'll come out of it. Feeling better already.
I will work on my stuff.
W has been on ADs for years. She's had lots of therapy. She's seeing an IC now.
The conversation where this started, she told me that she was going back to therapy, I knew this and was glad. It's when I probed about how she was doing that she starting talking about D.
I asked her afterwards about connection, and she said, of course you can't spend 12 years with someone without feeling connected. But she's always felt something missing.
Our intimate life has never been fireworks. We've made it work - but she's said that, this should be easier, natural, not something we have to work at.
