I have to vent, folks. I am now incensed beyond anything xW has ever done to me.
I got back a few minutes ago from a parent-teacher function at S8's school. Not surprisingly, xW showed up there tonight too. She was ever as distant as she has ever been since the bomb. Not a big surprise either.
I called to talk to my S's on the way back. S8 had just gotten out of the bathtub when he took the call. He told me that his grandmother was not the one babysitting them, but "Mr. OM" was babysitting he and his little brother, playing Wii games with them.
OM babysitting my children was bad enough. But it gets worse.
S8 told me that "Mr. OM" was giving S8 and S4 their baths!
I was dumb-founded. xW was so reckless that she would allow a strange man unrelated to our sons bathe our two small boys? I tried to recover, fumbling for words to keep calm, but I was shocked and infuriated. S8 said that his mother was now saying her good-byes to OM as he and I spoke.
I did manage to finish out the call under control but part of me was considering turning my car around and going down there to do some bodily harm.
I want to tear the both of these two so-called people a new one. This has got to stop -- this sh*tbag needs to keep away from my sons and keep his hands to himself, or I'm going to snap and do I don't know what. My ex had better learn real quick what to be actually scared of -- nothing she has done to date, not the infidelity, not the divorce nor the treachery even have had a chance of making me a physical threat to her safety, despite her assertions to family and friends otherwise. Such is my commitment to Christ.
But this, should my S's be in any way harmed because of her recklessness... I might very well snap. God help me.
I reported this to my L. I doubt there really is anything the court will say or do if no real laws have been broken yet. This is a sick, lost world.
