BND-
Just went to view all your posts, and went to page 1 of 756(!). Wow! I will say that the little I read gave me hope for my sitch.

Thank you!

Me: 50; Wife: 48
Gay; civil union in NJ
no kids
M: 15 years, together 17
Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY
W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed