I have done the clothes,haircut,colonge but she did not care much. She notices but she cares more about the OM. And that is fine, he will never leave his wife.
V1olin, I can just feel the anger and bitterness dripping from you. This isn't about dating or not. Reconciliation or dropping the rope. You have to forgive to free yourself.
I recommend you google The Other Woman. It is a sick site where mistresses support one another. But if you look for a thread called Endings - you can find some interesting material to read. Might even want to print some of the info. Just in case you wanted to have a friend share it with her. Just a thought.
But, seriously, man - this is a marathon, not a sprint.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
