New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

Veronica,

Thanks for the reasurance. I value your input as a lawyer. Legal matters are a nebulous world to me, so I don't grasp the meaning of all the legalese language. You are absolutely right about mindreading: it only hurts the one who engages in it.

My mind gets filled with a whirlwind of thoughts which only bring me to tears and get me emotionally drained. I know the correct answer to this: stop the mindreading. I haven't gone this far in becoming whole again to revert back to what I used to do before my W left...I know better...

I WILL hold on to my accomplishments. I tell myself I am still a good person divorced or not. And you are one good friend Veronica. Thanks for keeping me grounded.

JR